Building caring communities together
Showing respect and concern for other people regardless of race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, is at the centre of our collective South African culture and critical to create a harmonious and peaceful society for everyone. By recognising our diverse backgrounds and cultures, we can commit ourselves to the ideals and ethical values that unite us as a country.
We celebrate Moral Regeneration Month every July, the month, when the Charter of Positive Values was adopted in 2008. During Moral Regeneration Month, all South Africans are encouraged to reflect on the state of the nation regarding our moral and ethical behaviour. We need to encourage one another to be better citizens to achieve a sustainable moral, just, humane, stable, and prosperous nation.
It’s also the birth month of former President Nelson Mandela, who convened the first Moral Summit to discuss the spiraling moral decay that was becoming pervasive in our country. And as he rightfully said, “Corruption, criminality, tax evasion, venality, theft, disrespect for human life, fraud, rape, the abuse of women and children, unbridled self-gratification, drunkenness, extortion and family breakdown, much of it touched by violence, the outward forms of a diseased social climate which affects all of us.”
He also said, "What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead."
Caring for our families, communities, and the environment is central to being human. We shouldn't let the stress of our fast-paced lives take away our respect for each other.
Parenthood is a demanding but fulfilling role. Raising children to become responsible and productive citizens should be an important focus of any parent.
Who we are as adults is based on the manners, discipline and morals that are instilled by our parents and teachers as we grow up. Children learn through what we say and teach them - but more importantly by the attitudes and behaviours we display.
We should teach children to:
- Respect themselves, their friends and classmates.
- Learn boundaries of what's acceptable behaviour at home and in public.
- Show respect for older persons.
- Use good social manners (please, thank you, greetings).
- Offer their seat to older persons, disabled and pregnant commuters on public transport.
- Respect their school, teachers, and uniform by adhering to the school’s code of conduct.
- Always be honest and help those less fortunate than they are.
Children who know their parents love them are positively encouraged and taught to love and respect themselves and are equipped to face life’s challenges. These children have better self-esteem and are more likely to make better decisions not based on peer pressure.
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We spend most of our day at work and it’s important to maintain working relations by being respectful and considerate of our colleagues. While most workplaces have codes of conduct, we sometimes forget what's acceptable behaviour when we’re at work.
Respect goes a long way in building professional relationships. Respect your colleague's possessions and work areas. Be mindful of arriving early to meetings and remember to greet with a smile.
2. Avoid office gossip
Try to stay clear from gossip and rumours because it can create unnecessary tension and be damaging to relationship building.
3. Courtesy is key
Always be kind and helpful to your colleagues. When you go the extra mile for them, they’ll go the extra mile for you.
We all seem to be rushing somewhere in our cars. This often leads to inconsiderate road behaviour which can escalate to road rage.
It’s important to remember that we share the roads, and we should never allow our emotions to place our lives and the lives of others in harm’s way. The rules of the road are meant to ensure your safety. Ignoring these rules more often than not places lives at risk.
Do’s and don’ts for motorists:
- Always be patient. Do not exceed the indicated speed limit. Many impatient drivers cause accidents when they drive recklessly.
- Give yourself more time. By leaving earlier, you won’t have the need to rush.
- Be patient and show consideration. Allow merging traffic to merge into your lane. Move out of the way for emergency vehicles, and respect the safety of cyclists, motorcyclists and pedestrians who are more vulnerable to injury than you.
- Always indicate and ensure it’s safe before turning, changing lanes and while in a traffic circle.
Obey the road signs. They are there to ensure our safety. Ignoring signs only places you and other road users at risk. Remember, always fasten your seat belt. Statistics show that if you and your passengers buckle up, you are much more likely to survive an accident.
- Don't weave in and out of lanes as it doesn't allow other road users enough reaction time.
- Don’t tailgate (aggressively drive closely behind someone), flash your lights, or hoot at someone who drives too slowly for your liking.
- Driving while sending text messages or talking on your phone reduces your ability to make quick decisions in an emergency. It also significantly limits the concentration required to safely navigate traffic and road conditions. Remember #ItCanWait.
- Never drive under the influence of alcohol, heavy medication or illegal drugs.
Other road users:
- Always walk on the pavement and remember that pedestrians aren't allowed on the highway.
- Look both ways before crossing a road.
- Where there are pedestrian crossings, wait for cars to stop before you cross.
- Cross the road quickly and remain observant until you’ve reached the other side.
- Alcohol and drugs diminish your judgement when walking on pavements and crossing roads.
- Stay as close to the side of the road as possible.
- Use hand signals to indicate if you're turning.
- Cycle in single file and never alongside other cyclists.
- Be aware and considerate of pedestrians and other road users.
- Follow the rules of the road
- Follow speed limits and obey restrictions.
- Be extra cautious during wet and foggy weather, as visibility is reduced, and more reaction time is needed.
- Always wear a helmet. This applies to passengers too.
- Do not to ride behind big vans and trucks as it’s difficult to see around the vehicle, and the driver might not be able to see you.
- Always use your indicators to signal your intended direction.
- Although weaving in between cars (also called lane-splitting) isn’t illegal, it’s best to do it when it’s safe. When a motorist blocks you from lane-splitting, it’s within their rights to do so as they have no legal obligation to allow lane-splitting. Motorcyclists and motorists shouldn’t make reckless moves that may endanger the lives of other road users.
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For many of us public transport is a daily part of our lives. Thousands of people use a train, bus or taxi to get from point A to point B. With so many of us sharing our personal space, we need to be mindful of the following to avoid unnecessary discomfort:
- Don't eat when you’re using public transport.
- Don’t throw litter out of the windows of public transport. Throw litter in the bins at the station or bus terminus. If there’s no place to dispose of the items, keep it and throw it away in the nearest bin or at home.
- Avoid your comfort from becoming the discomfort of fellow commuters.
- Don’t take up 2 seats.
- Don't place your bag on an open seat.
- If you're about to board a bus or train, allow boarded passengers to exit first.
- Be respectful to the driver and other staff.
- Please respect the privacy of other commuters. What they’re doing is none of your business.
- Use headphones/earphones when listening to music and keep the volume at a level only you can hear.
- Give up your seat to those who really need it, like the elderly or pregnant women.
- Don’t vandalise the trains, busses or infrastructure.
- Don’t use the train as your soapbox or to evangelise other commuters.
- Cough into the inside of your elbow to limit the spread of germs.
- If you’re travelling by train, sit in the carriage that your ticket indicates, e.g. metro or metro plus.
- If you’re using MyCiti busses, don’t sit on the red seats marked for the elderly, disabled or frail.
Let’s play our part and make public transport a better experience for everyone.
We all share a beautiful country with many public spaces made available for us to enjoy the tranquil and scenic outdoors. We also share areas such as pavements, malls and stadiums. To ensure that we all enjoy these spaces equally, remember to be considerate of others by:
- Not playing loud music.
- Ensuring that any activities such as playing with balls or a frisbee don’t disturb anyone else.
- Close taps after using it. Don’t waste water.
- Keeping your area clean by removing any rubbish such as paper plates, plastic containers and packets.
- Not blocking pavements or passageways for others to pass by.
- Not bumping into others in shopping centres, and always being mindful of others around you.
When we're respectful, considerate and helpful toward each other, then we are truly Better Together.
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